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I absolutely love writing and sharing but in the beginning put off sharing as I knew it wasn’t perfect. But I’ve realised none of that matters. What is perfect anyway? Thank you for this Aidan. Loved it.

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Exactly, screw perfect, embrace what's real and genuine and authentic. Appreciate you!!

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I love this! I can really relate.. I've been trying to consciously battle my perfectionist demon recently by sharing my work on Instagram when it doesn't feel "ready". Sharing works-in-progress and the messier stuff.. even sharing when I don't think anyone will like or understand it. It's been really liberating because I've noticed a similar response to these pieces compared to the ones I believe are "good"! It's definitely a lesson in stepping down from the judge/jury stand and just letting the art be

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I really resonate with the *sharing it when you think people won't understand it* thing. I actually just had someone misinterpret one of my poems, and it didn't end up being that big of a deal! Just a silly misunderstanding that will likely only live on as a learning moment and funny memory haha

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Fellow perfectionist chiming in to say I loved this piece:

And as a self-proclaimed perfectionist who is just about sick of not getting to reap any of the rewards of working so hard to develop projects”

I SO feel that!

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Appreciate you checking out the Substack! 🫶🏼

And it’s nice to know other people out there resonate 🥲 hahaha

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